Frugal Friday
If it's anything I've learned over the years, it's that there is no
such thing as 'normal.' We wish for a
normal life or a normal day. For me,
that means a day when everything goes as planned, and nothing goes wrong. And I have to say, there are a few of
those. Unfortunately, there are more
that don't.
How many times have you looked at your schedule and thought—this looks
like an easy day. Then, the dog throws
up on your carpet as you're leaving for work, there's an accident on the
highway with traffic backed up for over a mile, and you realize you forgot your
lunch, so you have to run out and get something instead of making up for lost
time by eating at your desk.
The next morning might go more smoothly. But then you get a call from your mother that
she ran out of her prescription medication, your husband calls and asks you to
send flowers to his boss's wife who had emergency surgery, and your son
'reminds' you there is an Open House at his school that evening.
You had your days all planned out to the minute, from errands to
cleaning to cooking to laundry. Then
these emergencies happen. Your life is
anything BUT normal.
So how do you cope? I call it
being frugal with your time. Just like
you put away money for a rainy day, or are very attentive as to how you spend
it, you should also do this with the minutes and hours in your day.
Never plan out every minute of every day with something that needs to
be done. Odds are, these emergencies
will creep up, eat up your time, and before you know it, nothing is checked off
that list. In fact, the list keeps getting longer, not shorter. So leave cushions in your week for these
emergencies.
Allow more time for appointments and tasks than you know they will
take. For example, you have a dentist
appointment with a 15 minute drive each way.
You know the appointment is only for a cleaning—30 minutes tops. So you allow yourself an hour. But then traffic and lights slow you down,
the dentist is running late, and they discover a cavity that needs filling. Suddenly, that hour appointment turns into
two hours and the bathroom doesn't get cleaned as a result.
Finally, don't take on any more tasks than you are sure you can
handle. It's much easier to say no at
the beginning than handing it back mid-project.
Be frugal with your time, and you will find you have more of it than you
think.
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